Sunday, December 15, 2019

Our family wouldnt be the same without our dogs

Our family wouldnt be the same without ur dogsOur family wouldnt be the same without our dogsJustin Martin, a father of four is really a father of six - if you count Minnie and Sasha, the family dogs. A blue pit bull and a husky, respectively, Minnie and Sasha joined the household after Justins first two kids, and the familys only grown since then. Fortunately, they all live in the rural town of Ada, Oklahoma, with plenty of room for the whole dog and human family. In Justins own words, heres the story of Minnie and Sasha.I previously had American pit bulls and loved them.As our son welches turning three, my wife and I had talked off and on about finding aelendher dog. We had since moved to the country and had plenty of property for dogs to run and play, so the timing welches perfect. One afternoon we ran into a lady in a parking lot giving away puppies that hadnt been off of milk for very long at all. She welchesnt certain of the breed, but knew she couldnt keep them. We picked Min nie out of the group and brought her home.Follow Ladders on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moreSasha is a bit more of an adoption.She showed up at my wifes uncles house in Dallas one day. He is a huge dog-lover and took her in while he tried to locate the owner. They contacted the owner and he basically said he was done with her and to not bother bringing her home. Her shedding and getting out of his very tiny yard all the time had worn on his nerves and the excitement of having a Husky puppy was gone. I told him we would love to have her. So a few days later, I made a two-hour drive to meet them halfway to get her. Our Uncle still asks about her and likes to keep up with her on Facebook.My favorite things about each dog is their personalities.Minnie is a Blue Pit. A breed constantly stereotyped as a bad breed or fighting dog, but she wants nothing in the world more than to cuddle up in your lap an d get all the scratches and hugs that she can. She lounges around on the bed or the sofa all day and has never shown an ounce of aggression towards anything. Shes the most laid-back dog ever and truly one of my best friends.Sashas personality is still an adventurer.While she is older now and not as high-strung as when she first came home, she is still very energetic. She doesnt like laying around all day and is usually running or walking around the property looking to see if anything new is going on. Shes always down to go on a hike or walk.Shortly after Sasha had found her place in our home,I trained her on the invisible fence that we use to keep the dogs from venturing onto neighbors property and getting into trouble. Sasha picked up on the fence location and what it meant really fast and was soon able to be trusted on her own in the yard while we were at work or away from the house. Well, unknown to us, she regularly walked the perimeter of the fence, testing it like the Velocira ptors inJurassic Park.This constant vibrating and beeping of her collar made the battery run down in less than half the expected time it should.One afternoon, I come home and she was gone.After driving around a bit looking for her, I came home and put a post up on Facebook. Shortly after, someone got in contact with me and said they found her. She was a few miles away (through the woods) at a horse ranch, lounging around watching chickens in a chicken coop. The woman at the ranch said she didnt cause any problems and just seemed interested in watching the chickens.I think the thing most parents worry about with dogs - or big dogs anyway - is something happening and a child getting bit somehow.Just like raising a dog the right way, you have to reinforce proper habits around dogs to your kids. You obviouslyteach them to be nice to the dogs, dont do anything to a dog that you wouldnt want someone to do to you, but you also have to go further than that. Things like not teasing them wi th a toy, or not messing with them while theyre eating.Being a city dog, Sasha rarely saw much wildlife.Once she moved into the country, that all changed. Not too long after her arrival, we woke up one morning to a lifeless Opossum she had left on the porch for us. I thought it was her leaving us a present as gratitude for bringing her home. Fast forward to a few nights later, and we have another gift A mole that she had dug up out of the ground had the unfortunate luck of meeting Sasha. The few nights later. Another. And another. And.another. This went on for quite some time.Sashahasnt left a gift for us in a while now,so I think she feels like she has shown her gratitude appropriately or that she has simply made a truce with the wildlife around us. My mother-in-law says that she simply ran out of things to give us. Either way, she is a great hunter.Minnie has always liked to ride in the jeep with me.One day I decided to bring her along on a hike I was going on with my kids Brock a nd Dellanie. It was a nice springday.Wewent to a nearby state park and hiked to our halfway point before stopping for a picnic lunch. Shortly after lunch and starting back, I realized I was a bit overzealous by bringing the kids and Minnie on that long of a hike. By the time we finished, I had Dellanie strapped to my back with my backpack and was having to stop every few hundred yards to convince Minnie that we were almost there. They were all exhausted by the end of the day. We have since gone on shorter hikes.Something that makes me smile is that Sasha typically stays outside,due to being adventurous and always wanting to know whats going on and thus, wanting out. Minnie likes to stay inside because shes become pretty lazy in her age. This has led to her sleeping in my first daughter, Dellanies, bed a lot since its lower to the ground. Hearing Dellanie talk about fighting for covers with the dog is funny. She kicks her out of bed when she has enough and Minnie is usually found in our extra room on the couch at that point.The kids at this point basically treat Minnie and Sasha as another sibling. They dont really see them as much as a pet as a typical kid would. They have great fun with them.This article originally appeared on Fatherly.You might also enjoyNew neuroscience reveals 4 rituals that will make you happyStrangers know your social class in the first seven words you say, study finds10 lessons from Benjamin Franklins daily schedule that will double your productivityThe worst mistakes you can make in an interview, according to 12 CEOs10 habits of mentally strong people

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